Man I could go on and on and on, but I'll try to keep this to my usual 2 or 3 paragraphs. I've had the average amount of "female companions" in my 31 years. And unlike any other trial and error experiment, I have not learned ANYTHING from any of them. Just when I think I have a grasp on the thinking process of this very mysterious species, I am presented with new evidence that prooves I actually know nothing. I have been lied to, cheated on, and ignored.....I've even been given the "'Honey-I-love-you-I'll-see-you-tomorrow'-and-never-heard-from-again" routine. I would like to think I am a nice guy. Anybody that knows me would agree. I've spent my entire life keeping a good reputation. And that is harder than you would think. Of all these story-tellers, magicians, and escape artists known as women, there are a few that go against the grain and are genuinely out to better their signifigant other's lives. And I tip my hat to you ladies. You deserve the utmost respect, loyalty, and love from the men whose lives you bless.
Now here's where I get confused. Out of that select group of females that I mentioned above, there is a sub-group that are with some of the most abusive, vile, and cruel, men that walk the face of the planet. And rather than running as fast as they can from these monsters, they stay right there with them. Sometimes even justifying their actions and saying "Oh I deserved to get hit in the face with that hot iron" This makes it really hard for guys like me ladies. The opportunity for me to find one of these special women gets thinner for each one of you that takes a fist to the temple area. I'm sorry if I offend any of you, I'm just stating from my observations. After all isn't that what the whole dating scene is? One big social experiment?
I think Bill Maher said it best..."Women cannot complain about men anymore until they start getting better taste in them." So ladies, if you are in an abusive relationship, mental or physical....GET OUT. There are still guys out there like me who know how to be gentlemen and would treat you like queens the rest of your lives........Thanks for listening.
Well as for the first part, the same could be said about men. There are a few good ones left out there, and I was lucky enough to find one, but the majority are bunch of losers.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the sentiment that the women should get out of those abusive relationships, but I can say from experience that it's extremely hard. I was in a string of emotionally abusive relationships, starting with Mike, who damaged me so badly, tore me down so much and made me believe that I was worthless, that I should just stay with him because no one out there would have me. It took me to a dark place in my life that I really had to fight to get out of. I was broken after what he did to me, and it took meeting the right man to fix me, to make me feel as if I mattered, and that was a full 6 years after I first let Mike convince me that I didn't.
It took meeting my husband, who helped give me the strength to leave the asshole I was with (who had just stepped up the abuse from mental to physical) to really make me open my eyes and realize that I deserved more and that there really was more out there.
Anyway, I said all that to say this, women are very fragile and easily broken. Like a fine piece of crystal, a woman can only be broken so many times before the pieces are too small to put back together. Just keep being one of the good guys, and show those women you speak of that there is better out there and that they deserve it.